Are all male characters ＂scum＂？ The gender perspective of Our Marriage has caused controversy.

With superb acting skills, David plays a husband, Sheng Jiangchuan, who is deeply influenced by the idea of "male chauvinism" in Our Marriage. It seems that this role will be "dragged out and beaten up" by netizens as soon as he speaks.While angry, netizens feel unworthy of Bai Baihe’s role as comet Shen.

This shows that David brought the role to life, which made netizens hate such a man with "male chauvinism". In the play, there are other male characters, such as Huo Liankai played by Lawrence Wang, Cao Daren played by Shi Jingming, and Lu Weibin played by Tong Yue, who are just as famous as Sheng Jiangchuan and rated as "love rat Group" by netizens. More extreme netizens think that all the male characters in Our Marriage are "love rat" except Yuwen Li played by Ann.

This triggered a heated discussion among netizens. Some netizens believe that "Our Marriage" shows the attributes of men’s "trusting love rat" and enhances women’s panic about marriage; Some netizens believe that "Our Marriage" deliberately smears men to cater to female audiences and takes gender opposition as a gimmick.These are all disputes caused by gender perspective.

From the perspective of women, the male characters in Our Marriage have obvious shortcomings, old-fashioned and extreme ideas, and are not worthy of being entrusted for life. Women should be beautiful alone; From the point of view of men, the portrayal of male roles in TV plays is as bad as it can be, which is completely discrediting men, making the audience feel that the right ones are women, and using gender opposition to cater to women.

But from the perspective of TV series, the description of male roles in Our Marriage is not to vilify male roles, nor is it to reduce the marriage rate of the country, butLet the role be fuller to reflect a social situation,Let the audience find the problem and arouse their thinking. Rather than causing gender confrontation, it is more likeLook at family problems from the perspective of both men and women, and form a kind of thinking debate to discuss current problems.

Sheng Jiangchuan’s "male chauvinism" is mainly reflected in the traditional concept of "the man is the master outside and the woman is the master inside". He believes that a man should work outside to support his family, so as to express his protection and love for his wife and show his charm as a man and head of the family. However, Shen Comet believes that women can be very independent and realize their own value in the workplace. Both husband and wife should have the same division of labor and equal status.

The other two families are typical representatives of this dialectical thought. Moreover, there are not only male characters but also female characters with obvious defects in Our Marriage.

Dong Sijia is a working woman. She is eager to realize her self-worth at work, while her husband, Yuwen Li, takes care of her children and family at home. She is a model of "women can also earn money to support their families", but she does not support her husband to find a job, thinking that it is not as beneficial for him to realize his ideal as to bring up children at home.

Jiang Jing is a stay-at-home mother, and her husband is the only one in the family, so she has no right to speak in the decision of family affairs. She regards her family as a company and her husband as a boss.

What the plot shows is that,These families are in conflict because of the incorrect thinking and unequal status of husband and wife.It’s like the realistic version of the last debate contest in Shen Comet’s university period, which shows the views of both husband and wife from the perspective of gender.

From the perspective of gender, the audience can more clearly understand how the family conflicts in TV dramas are generated, so that both sides of the contradictions can be distinguished.

Just like when Sheng Jiangchuan and Shen Comet quarrel, after the two sides express their views, they will definitely blame each other and find a breakthrough in each other. When both sides complain to their friends, the audience will also look at it from the perspective of both sexes. Perhaps inadvertently, we have stood in the perspective of sex to support the protagonist’s point of view.

At the same time of the debate, Our Marriage also expressed its ideas. It thinks that the idea of "men dominate the outside and women dominate the inside" is an outdated traditional idea, which is not suitable for modern society.Modern marriage should be equal, have the same rights, and share the obligations and pressures.

In the play, a "double-standard character" is specially designed, the father of Shen Comet, who supports women in their marriage to be husbands and godsons at home, but also supports women to work independently in their daughter’s marriage, which is also to persuade the audience with this idea to think differently.

TV series is an artistic process of life. On the basis of life, there must be exaggerated elements and even fictional places, so the audience need not quarrel seriously.The protagonist of life is yourself, so don’t be influenced by TV series.The real problems reflected behind TV dramas are really worth our thinking.